LET ME ASK YOU A QUESTION !?
HAVE EVER BEEN AROUND A GROUP OF PEOPLE AND YOU NOTICE THAT ONE GUY WHO ALWAYS SEEMS JUST SAY THE RIGHT THING AT RIGHT TIME,
You 've never been able to figure out how or why he's so good with girls?
But it's so obvious when you're around him this guy makes social interactions look totally effortless, but that's not what's so fascinating about it the unbelievable part is that this guy isn't super-wealthy or good-looking and in the surface he looks just like an ordinary dude it's natural to assume that he knows something that you don't. a secret the truth is that he does and it's not just one secret but But a combination of them once you understand what makes this guy's so good at socializing with girls, you can move up to the level that he is at and enjoy the fruits that come with such a skill.The ability to socialize and build attraction with any girl might seem like magic but really just a combination of things that when done right is like a key for unlocking a safe that holds everything you could ever want in the coming videos the inner mechanics of conversation with girls will will be broken down with no stone left unturned some guys were lucky enough to intuitively absorb these concept by growing up with other guys who have mastered the skill of conversation n but for the rest of us their secrests are better learned through a handful articles the truth is that your mindset affects absolutely everything you do and say ,you 've probably heard guys talking about the frame which is really just a different name for your mindset ,this guys were onto something your frame is your very first secrect and many would argue that it's also the most important ,have you ever been in a hurry to get somewhere like the the movies and every conceivable thing that could have went wrong actually happened acouple of weeks ago I was on my way to the movies with this girl and it takes about 60 minutes to get there from where I live we've left right away and right as we entered the hightway we got stuck in traffic this lasted for about ten minutes and as it happened my mindset started to get angry that traffic was so bad when I was in such a ruch as soon as we cross this bridge and got away from the traffic true story a few miles later we came to a complete stop again this time it wasn't construction that was holding us up it was a wildfire that had started on the side the hightway we could see huge flames almost leaping across our lane as we drove by and the smoke was so trick that we could barely see two feel in front of the point here is that once my mindset shifted to anger and negativity it is almost like the universe was out to get me and everything that could have went wrong did go wrong now on the flip side think about a time when your mindset was really positive and everything seems to go perfectly I remember times like this elementary school these were the days that I had good interactions with all of my friends the school took us a fun-filled trip my parents were cool when I got home and from start to finish the day was perfect it was almost like I had the midas touch and everything I was involved in turned to gold the foundation for mastering your conversation skills and talking to girls effectively is all about your mindset even if you get everything else right if you don’t have a strong frame your chance of success will be greatly reduced think for a second about the toughtest MMA fighters or your favorite actors in movies something that almost all successful people have in common is unshakable frame imagine you're talking to a super attractive girl everything is going great and then all of a sudden she tests you and throws you a curve shake up your frame girls do this all the time and for the guys who don't have a solid frame it is almost like throwing a huge a rock at a house made of glass with the right frame , you will be handle most situations confidently and effectively on the wrong frame can cause you to crumple under the slightest bit of pressure this happens to guys all the time and they don't even realize that their frame Is the major problem in many situations they're talking with some girls and once a girl gives off a single negative signal or plays hard-to-get a second the guy instantly starts to flood with insecurities and everything comes crashing down with a strong frame you can brush thing off and continue interaction as if nothing ever happened so what is a frame ?
Your frame is basically a set of beliefs that you have when enter into conversation you see your actions are what determine conversation with the girl is successful and since your actions are directly influenced by your frame you need to have the right mindset going in the perfect frame that you need to have when talking to girls or anyone for that matter consist of four different parts , the first part is responsibility , and it means taking responsibility for your like in your circumstance it's true that some things are out of your control , but many guys blame girls for their problems most people are on autopilote merely reacting to life the first part of a solid frame is accepting responsibility for your life and understanding that you have much more control of it than you might think that a second unshakable frame is eliminating your need to be validated by women for a lot of guys girls are viewed as trophies in other words the primary desire behind everything they do around the girls is validation , think about this for a second , imagine a time that you were talking with a girl and in the back of your head n you were probably thinking about whether or not she likes you or if she thinks you're weird this thinking comes from needing validation so to develop the second part of a solid frame you need to believe that you don’t need validation from,any girl try to think about this from the perspective of a video games I would train my character skills all the time and in the beginning it was because I wanted validation from other players ,but over time I changed I started trainnning for my own improvement to push my limits and to see what I was capable of this is the frame that you need to have when talking to girls the third part of solid frame is purpose many gays in the world are like Leafs blowing in the wind their aimless and they have no idea where they're going one of the biggest is making girls their number one purpose this is the most unattractive thing that you can do especially if you already have a girlfriend all girls want a man who has a purposde in life but they don’t want you to make them the perpose ,Iwon't talk too much more about purpose because it's a long story but the point is to have apurpose for your life so to develop this part of your frame discover your purpose and move a little every single day maybe right now your purpose , is that will fill in the third part of your frame now the right mindset that you need to have when talking to girls is perspective you need to assume that every girl attracted to you from the start of the conversation notice ,how I said conversation and not in general once you genuinely believe this you 'll have the final piece of a solid frame it doesn't even matter if you have bellow average looks , it was Confucius who said he who believes he can and he who believes he can't are bouth usually right , in other words your believes shape your reality and by simply believing that every girl is attracted to you you'll act in way that supports this belief which can make you fell more confident while talking to any girls .
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